Perfecting your posture

16/04/2009 send to a friend
Spring is here and the daffodils are standing proud setting an example for us all to follow. Your posture reveals how you feel about yourself, other people, and what's happening in your world. So get those shoulders back, pull in your stomach, and hold your head high. This month let your body do the talking by following these hints and tips from body language expert, Elizabeth Kuhnke.
Decide on your posture
Stand in front of a full length mirror and look at yourself. Pay particular attention to your shoulders, face, and the position of your head. What message are you conveying? Turn away momentarily. Decide how you want to be perceived and consider how you can convey that through your stance, breathing and facial expression. Adopt this image and turn back to the mirror. What differences do you notice between the first and second postures? By identifying the posture congruent with the attitude you want to convey you consciously determine how others perceive you.
Stand tall and sit well
Standing straight with your chest gently opened projects strength and stature. For authority put those shoulders back and arms by your side. To add to your appeal lift from your diaphragm and raise your buttocks.
Sitting conveys different states depending on the position of your arms, legs and head: back straight leaning slightly forward indicates that you are ready for action and focused in the here and now.
Tip
In a mood you don't like? Change your posture and see what happens. If you're feeling low, pull up from your waist, open your chest and let your head rise from your neck and shoulders like a balloon. Notice how your mood elevates.
Understanding the language of posture and consciously controlling it results in clear, effective communication and creates positive impact.
- Elizabeth Kuhnke, Kuhnke Communications
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Comments
Author: Dr Phil
Date: 21/04/2009
Comment: Excellent posture advice, but most of us find it difficult to follow all the time, for one simple reason - unless we're currently suffering back pain our posture isn't at the forefront of our minds.
For most of us, the only time we think about our posture is when our back starts to hurt - yet as the article rightly points out, good posture tells people a lot about ourselves as well as reducing our risk of back pain. You look and feel better, slimmer, more confident if you adopt a good posture.
This is a problem that's only going to get worse - between 2002 and 2008 the British Chiropractic Association survey showed an increase in back pain amongst 11-18 year olds from 29% to 45%. What's happened in 6 years to produce such a big increase amongst youngsters? MySpace and Facebook! These kids are going to have terrible posture, look and feel lousy and experience a lot of pain if they don't start sitting properly and adopting healthy working habits (i.e. getting up to take a break once in a while!)
I've developed award-winning software to help people improve their posture and working habits whilst using a computer. There's a free 30-day trial on my website: www.postureminder.co.uk
Dr Phil
Website: www.postureminder.co.uk